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Volunteering is among best ways to become engaged with child's educators

With each new grade or school their kids enter, parents wonder how to keep up — and how to fit volunteering into their busy schedules.

Fortunately, parents and educators have helpful suggestions for any level of children's education. Here are a few:

Kindergarten

In kindergarten, kids are learning such basic skills as cutting with scissors and writing their names. Most teachers appreciate parent volunteers in the classroom to read to children in groups and help keep the lessons moving.

"They get a little more individualized attention," says Kelly Ramsland, who often read to her daughter and other kindergartners at an elementary school in Tempe, Ariz., last year. "It's really good for the kids to hear different voices and their inflections."

Other ideas:

— Organize a party and bring decorations and food.

— Visit class and let your child practice making an introduction.

Grades 1 to 3

Children in the early grades often can use help with reading, and teachers can use a hand with some of the arts and crafts they use with their lessons.

Students in Carrie Hartson's third grade class learn about continents and oceans on papier-mache globes. Hartson got help on her projects last year from a pair of PTA mothers and several parents who couldn't come in during the day but donated supplies.

"For the working parents, that's sometimes their way of volunteering," Hartson says.

Workroom programs are a hit with elementary school teachers — parents can pick up such behind-the-scenes chores as photocopying, laminating and stapling. A centralized workroom lets parents complete "work orders" from teachers throughout the school, anytime during the day.

"We get out at 2:35, and lots of parents come in at 2 (p.m.) and say 'What can I do?'" says Lisa Bjotvedt , a former elementary school PTA president.

Others simply help out with special events once or twice a year.

"We have parents that come in on school picture day — all they do is make sure that kids' hair looks good for the picture," she says.

Other ideas:

— Make flashcards for a teacher.

— Donate some pencils and notebook paper.

— Arrange to help teach kids basic math skills.

Grades 4 to 6

Field trips, tutoring and organizing schoolwide events are good ways for parents to plug in at this stage.

Ramsland, who also has a son going into third grade and a daughter entering fifth grade this year, teamed up with other moms to do art presentations for her oldest daughter's class. They showed the kids works by Leonardo da Vinci, Vincent van Gogh and Pablo Picasso and talked about the artists' philosophies and lives.

Other ideas:

— Make a bulletin board display for a teacher.

— Volunteer in the library or special education classroom.

Grades 7 to 8

In middle school, helping out with extracurricular activities and athletic events is probably better than trying to volunteer in the classroom.

"Their peers are more important to them than anything else, and they don't want to see their parents (in class)," says Judy Dewalt, an information officer and former teacher and principal in the Paradise Valley (Ariz.) Unified School District.

Teachers encourage middle school students to think about career choices and often invite parents to speak about their jobs.

Other ideas:

— Raise funds for a field trip.

— Help organize a dance.

— Make sets and costumes for a school play.

Grades 9 to 12

When their kids reach high school, parents often can help out with booster clubs and such extracurricular activities as athletics and band.

Volleyball coach Jayne Radu says parents are a big part of her boys' and girls' teams. They keep statistics, sell concessions, take photos and organize a big banquet at the end of the year.

Mike Burm, a dad who has played volleyball for the last 30 years, has found time to volunteer with his son and daughter's volleyball teams. He brings Gatorade, takes photos and encourages players one on one.

"With high school athletes, sometimes the little things bother them — they can't let it go," says Burm. "And so I've talked with some of the boys to give them a perspective that's not (their) parent or a coach."

Other ideas:

— Make photocopies.

— Translate for the school office.

— Sponsor the cheerleading squad.